I marvel at the way people usually fall in love with the other people. The first meetings are usually the meetings where we want to find some ‘qualities’ which will make us fall in love. Qualities which are predefined by me as tasteful and convenient. The easier way here is to link the person’s similarities or differences to someone whom ‘I’ already know and love, like ‘my’ son, ‘my’ friend etc etc, because when he falls into the circumference of ‘mine’ then it is easier to love that since it is mine. Making him part of mine will make me possess the love, secure it and will allow me to forgive him if there are mishaps in this love.
So it is not about the democracy of love of how that person actually ‘is’ but it is a dictatorial method of how ‘i’ can see or make him to be. Love which stands on some crutches. But love wants to be free from any supports, handles or strings. It wants to just be. Just exist and live. Love which is just by itself, solitary yet sturdy, independent yet together, intoxicating yet spiritual. As Guruji says “Make the universal personal; it makes you richer, wiser, stronger. Make the personal universal; you will find freedom, compassion, love.” Set it free forever. True love blossoms in such freedom.
very true Bhaiya… i like the term “democracy of love”. Actually to love a person is like our favourate key” accept the person as it is”..
Wow !! Such clear thoughts and so clearly put forward !!
Sahi hai Bhaiyya, Mast likha hai.Quite true
Jai Gurudev
Bhaiya one of my friend is in love and that babe hates him like anything…
To kya he should also SET IT FREE!!!
Some real powerful words……. I wonder if such true love does exist…. or if it gets reciprocated ever……… n i wonder if such ppl do exist…….. ……. ………. ……………….
Nice Article. Lovely Picture.
Jai Guru Dev!
mast he bhaiya i iked d lines most are:-
make the universal personal and personal universal…
really setting it free will make mind more peacefull n all d problems solved…. i will do it 🙂