Negative Emotions arrive as withdrawal symptoms of another of their accomplices. With a break-off arrives depression and anger. With losing power arrives attention seeking syndromes and the evaporating symptoms for attachment are anger and fear of losing pleasure. So be grateful when these emotions arrive and observe them as they are leaving you and taking away some of their friends with them to make you pure.
Similar is with the positive emotions. Love brings host of problems with it and so does belongingness. As Guruji says “Belongingness can bring about a host of negative emotions. Like demand, jealousy, unawareness and lack of gratitude. Just look into your own life, you feel more grateful to strangers than the people you feel “belong” to you. Belongingness reduces gratefulness, awareness, and gives rise to demands which destroys love. This is the biggest problem in relationships. People are nice to strangers and give more attention to them. With a sense of belongingness comes carefreeness and lack of attention.”
“Here you are a stranger and everyone is a stranger to you!” are the words of the master.
so does dt mean,, we need to be a stranger to feel more grateful,, dt wl be being in a state f detachment.
funny, as it sounds, everyone wishes to be linked n connected whole n whole. isinit?
A very nice message. How true!
Deep within, I am still thinking, why is it so that we take our own people for granted always?
Wow dada! A nice post……. a much needed one……..Got answers to many of my questions from this post…………………..really liked it………
I would like to dedicate a song for this post…. Chalo ek baar fir se ajnabi ban jaye hum dono……..hahahahahaha
Luv
Meghu
mmmmmmmm…….loveddd it…..can I demand More 😉
WOW! nice one….. you are really an inspiration for me and I have commited to read your post daily.
Thanks!!!
Ajanabi tum jaane pehchane se lagte ho 🙂
Chalo ek baar phir se, ajnabi ban jaye ham dono..
Chalo ek baar phir se, ajnabi ban jaye ham dono…
Na main tumse koi ummeed rakhoon dilnavaazi ki…
Na tum meri taraf dekho galat andaaz nazaron se…
Na mere dil ki dhadkan ladkhadaaye meri baaton mein…
Na zaahir ho tumhaari kashm-kash ka raaz nazaron se…
Chalo ek baar phir se…